October 12, 2011

Getting pumpkins


Enjoying a fun ride with his little pumpkins.

Yummy



Getting a little crowded, but I think he's still having fun.

All of our little pumpkins, love these kiddos!

Nathan spent most of his time pushing the wheelbarrow through the mud.  He was a muddy happy mess by the end of the, a happy boy.

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October 8, 2011

Pi Phi friends

 
We enjoyed such a special day with two of my dear Pi Phi friends and their families.  We almost never see each other, but that is going to change! Yay!!  We've decided to try to get together every 3 months, I can't wait.  I love each of them and their husbands so much (I was lucky enough to know their husbands in college also).

It was so much fun getting all the kids together.  I can't believe how relaxing the time was, all the kids played SO well together.  They even ate outside while we enjoyed some adult time inside.  Then we went on a nice walk in the woods, thank you October for giving us a beautiful fall day.


Natalie grew a quick affection for Avery.  She has good taste in friends ;)
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September 9, 2011

The process of parenting


Today I went to Nathan's kindergarten evaluation. His teacher, Mrs. Robarge, took him in to evaluate where he is academically. Then she brought me in. We talked very briefly about his knowledge, then we talked a bit about what to expect this year. What I was hoping he would acheive this year.
What I hope for Nathan is very basic, but in my mind very important. I hope he will learn to be confident in his knowledge, confident in the learning process (trying new things even when it is difficult). And I hope his interpersonal social skills will develop. He is wonderful at independant play, and he plays really well with his sister. But sometimes I notice that he isn't in sinc with his peers. He does well with older children since he can follow their lead and they tend to be a bit nurturing.
The biggest thoughts I had went unshared. Does she know how important he is to me? (of course she does... but not really). Does she know that when I look at him my heart swells with joy, pride, and an ache? I am so thankful to be a part of Nathan's life, to watch him grow, learn and enjoy. I am thankful that God has given me a chance to be a part of his life. When I watch him, really stop what I am doing and watch him, my heart aches. He is a piece of me, and I know my time with him is brief. Does his teacher know how caring he is? That he reaches for my hand when I lay with him, so that we are holding hands as he drifts off to sleep? His tenderness is so dear to me.
As we left her classroom he turned and hugged her legs so tightly, then he reached for her hand to give her arm a kiss. I saw this action many times last year with his Preschool teachers. I'm so thankful to see it again. I know someday that innocent tenderness will be replaced with something different. For now I will cherish this stage, and hope that Mrs. Robarge will see how very special Nathan is.
I could never have known how wonderful it would be to have the honor of being a parent. I'm grateful for my time with my kids now, I'm excited to help them grown and set them free into the world, and I'm so hopeful they will choose to stay in my life when they are adults.

July 26, 2011

Our new patio


Okay, to address the obvious (that will hopefully become less obvious in the future). I've totally failed at blogging. The truth, and this is lazy on my part, is that when we got our new computer I lost my beloved photo program (I'm not even sure what I had before). So suddenly compressing pictures got more difficult, and uploading the full resolution picture just takes SO long. So, we've found a new program and I'm hoping it encourages me to update our blog more often. Here's hoping!
This weekend Trever's Dad brought his beloved Harley Davidson back to us!! (I'll post on that later). And since he was here, we thought it was a great time to tackle a big project.
The "before". Trever starting to clear out the space for the new patio. (And yes Dad, we do love using your tractor!!)
Andrew is more intersted in the grass than the project at hand. The border is finally installed... and by finally I mean FINALLY. My husband is *amazing*, and I am SO thankful for his dedication to perfection and hard work. However, he wore his dad and me out. We were nervous to do any work with him absent. And the work that we did??? Yeah, we had to remove it and do it again. If you know my Father-in-law you would be even more impressed by these statements. The man is definitely a perfectionist up to the highest standards!
Natalie helping to pound in the last brick. Did you know that when you cut a square brick into two triangles you can use BOTH of them for the finished product??? :) You had to be there.
Nathan loves the job of sweeping the sand. He had eagerly awaited this stage during the two days it took to build the patio.
Ahhh... the finished product. And what better way to enjoy all the hard work than a fireside sing along.
A huge thanks to both our Dad's for their contributions. We are so blessed to have your support, your skills and your tools.

July 21, 2011

House projects

We're obviously rested from the house build... it shows in our new found energy for house projects. We moved in a year ago, I'm not sure if that makes it a quick recovery or not. :) I'm just glad we can think of painting a space or finishing an area (mud room, pantry, office...) without getting a headache. It feels nice to be back to "us", where projects are a bit exciting not so much a drain on our energy which is how we felt a year ago. And that might be putting it nicely.

Our new dining table, found on craigslist for $40. (I'll just say it now, I fail in remembering to get true "before" shots).
The almost "after" shot. I love it at this stage! Then we put some poly on it... and it changed the color a bit. I'm a little bummed, but not enough to do anything about it. You don't really see the bottom that much anyway, and the poly will make it much more durable to the kids. I'm so glad to have a table that seats 8 comfortably!!
The office redo. When we made our list of projects that we'd like to accomplish this summer/fall the office was at the top of my list. I knew it would make a big impact on our daily life. Being in a room with too much clutter was not helping my mental energy. We got a bid on having it built out... yikes, almost $3000 and that didn't include painting/staining. Although the finished project would have been amazing, I just couldn't bring myself to put that much of our project money into my office. So we got creative. We used our current filing cabinet and my dad's old office components and created a new office. I love it! It's not perfect, we made some compromises, and we still need to come up with a plan for the wall area. But I still love it! (even though it hasn't managed to stay clean yet, we'll get there).
After... the total cost? $100 and some hours painting/staining.
Trever has given me some freedom to paint (he's an amazing painter so I'm generally nervous to tackle projects without him). It's working so nicely for us, I paint, he does the finish/install work. It's nice to find this balance. And an added bonus to these projects? We're using paint that we already had on hand, which means less gallons of paint that I need to beg Trever to get out of the garage.

June 18, 2011

June fun...


A night out with friends!  Woo Hoo.



Andrew stayed home with the other kids, but Mikey enjoyed the evening with the adults.




The Capital City Senators annual auction is full of fun.  Lots of dancing and lots of fun.





The boys at the end of the year picnic.  Nathan, Logan and Luke.  Can't believe my boy is going on to Kindergarten!



Pooping dominos. Really???  Gotta love how much fun poop can be when your little. :)




Celebrating with "what kind of cake do you want?".  It's more about the colors than the taste at this point.




A visit from Nana and Papa.












June 10, 2011

Our beautiful tree

This was my favorite tree when we cleared the land to build our house. Thus, it stayed. Many people encouraged us to cut it down. Their reasons seemed to revolve around the maintenance that it would cause. We're not afraid of work, and we loved this old beauty, so we resisted.
It did distract from the view of our house when you drove up. And as we planned to landscape our front yard we realized it would be better to remove it now than in a few years (an arborist said we had 5 years or so before she would need to be removed).
I need to go take a picture from the back of the house so I can compare the difference.
I was SO sad on the day we were actually cutting her down ... very truly emotionally sad. It just felt a bit wrong to cut down such an old and beautiful tree (and maybe I'm still a bit postpartum)
If it can be said, the fall was both awesome and graceful.

Definitely opens up the front of the house. And once the tree was down we were able to see that about 40% was rotting. I felt a whole lot better knowing that.

May 20, 2011

Summer is almost here :)

Trever took Nathan to watch a housefire with our friend Coby. I could see the eagerness in Trever, he was looking forward to sharing a bit of his profession with his son (always a bit of hope that someone will follow in the family footsteps). We know so many kids who are in awe of firefighters. Not our kids. Don't get me wrong, they like to see a firetruck, and they love the idea of going to see Daddy at work... but ask my son what he wants to be when he grows up....

A ROCKSTAR of course! Lovin' the rockstar pose :)



A little playdate with some friends. I am looking forward to a summer filled with giggling kids and time chatting with my friends.



For the 3rd time my friend Marissa and I have kids very close in age. (Nathan and Logan are 2 weeks apart, Natalie and Anna are 7 months apart, Andrew and Michael are 2 months apart). You would almost think we were some crazy ex-cheerleaders who had planned this craziness. Nope, just lucky.



The faces of Natalie... partially serious/somewhat pouty.



Happy smiles!



A girl who takes after her brother, she LOVES her rain boots!



Natalie is learning fashion, aparantly you can't have too many polka dots. I keep trying to edit her closet :) Truthfully, I think it's darling to see a child in mix-matched attire. To see a child in a self-chosen outfit always brings a smile to my face.














May 13, 2011

Time for a change

I've been wanting to change the way I blog... but waiting until I get caught up. Well, that clearly isn't going to happen anytime soon, so I'm moving ahead (and hopefully going back to finish posting between January and May!).

Rather than trying to post about specific events in our life I am going to try to post at least once a week and capture the charm and fun that occurs in our daily life. We'll see how it goes. :)

We're so blessed, Andrew is getting tons of time with his Daddy (we all are). I keep kidding that my kids are going to start thinking that we are independantly wealthy. Trever was able to take almost 12 weeks off when Andrew was born (he worked off and on during the last 6 weeks). Life went back to normal for a bit and then Trever found himself with an injury that is keeping him from work again. It's frusterating for him to be injured, this is the time of year that he is able to really enjoy his favorite activities. The Rainier trip is questionable, Trever is determined not to throw in the towel until he has to so we'll see. That frustration is balanced by the joy we've found in spending so much time together as a family.






Andrew is the sweetest baby! Everywhere I go I am asked if he is "always this calm?". Yes. He is super laid back, loves to watch what's going on around him, and adores his siblings. I just love to cuddle him and try to burn the image of this baby stage in my mind, it's going by so quickly. Andrew just got his first tooth, he's trying so hard to sit up, and he starting to roll over (although only in his crib when he's supposed to be going to sleep).






I'm SO thankful for each of our beautiful children.







We were finially able to squeeze in a visit with the Spencers! It shouldn't be so difficult to find time for friends, but life is busy. Hopefully our next visit will come sooner. It was fun to have Beth get a quick break from motherhood and watch her have fun on the dirt bike.






Nathan's Parents Tea. It's going so fast, especially since we only did one year of Preschool for Nathan. Off to Kindergarten all ready???? My heart is going to ache in September, my oldest is starting the process of gaining independence from us. It makes me so proud and so sad. :)






So we'll take each day as it comes... and we'll cherish the moments making memories as a family and with our wonderful friends.